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Now That California Voters …

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… have confirmed they like things just the way they are, the rest of us can breathe easier because they won’t be leaving the Golden State and infecting the rest of the country. Right?

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September 14, 2021 at 8:55 pm

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A Smart Thing to do …

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”’ I was told as a lad is to learn as much as you can from the people around you.


What I’ve learned is that there really are some really stupid people.

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September 14, 2021 at 7:00 am

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Swiss Sun Parlor Has Latin Lilt

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By Cecil Scaglione

Mature Life Features

LOCARNO — While the scenery in the Swiss “sun parlor,” the country’s southern­most canton of Ticino, may not overwhelm you with dramatic alpine vis­tas as some more-rugged sec­tions of the coun­try do, it carries a lingering charm. Life in this polenta-pasta-and-palm-tree finger of land poking into northern Italy has a leisurely Latin lilt.

Conversation is punctuated with ges­tures not seen in the more sedate sec­tions of Swit­zer­land. Grappa, a po­tent Italian li­quor, is the tradi­tional after-dinner Ticino tipple.

Lake Lucerne

Not only do Ital­ian, French and Swiss cultures min­gle here, it’s also the geographical point at which the great plate of the African continent shoulders its way into the European conti­nent, rumpling the land­scape into what we call the Alps.

We rolled into this vista of val­leys, vineyards and vil­las, fol­lowing a couple of days in the magnificent Ho­tel Dolder Grand in Zurich. A lei­surely day-long boat-and-train trip carried us almost the entire width of this nation.

A short walk from the Locarno’ train terminal is the Grand Ho­tel Locarno, overlook­ing the crisp, cool waters of Lago Maggiore. We took the time to sip a satis­fying local merlot in the wine cellar of this historic hostelry, where the fragile treaties de­signed to keep a lasting peace in Europe following World War I were drafted.

Then we boarded a bus to neighboring Ascona, a lakeside town that peers up at the border vil­lage of Brissago, renowned for its hand-rolled cigars.

 A 30-minute train trip through Centovalli (Hundred Valleys) and a ca­ble car took us to a grotto (country ca­fe) in the pocket community of Raza. There we energized ourselves with a hearty meal of beef stew, polenta, red wine, salad and espresso, all washed down with a healthy belt of grappa.

It’s only a one-hour drive from Locarno to Lugano, Ticino’s largest city, but we took a bit lon­ger by stop­ping for lunch in the canton’s capi­tal, Bellinzona. Three medieval cas­tles here still guard the Magadino Plain, his­torically a ma­jor entrance to Europe’s heart­land.

Lugano, the third major Swiss finan­cial center after Zurich and Geneva because of its perch on Italy’s northern border, embraces its name­sake lake. Along its shores are a choco­late museum, curi­ously the only one in this country, and a smuggler’s museum.

This resort city is within a couple of hours by auto, bus or train from Milan, Genoa, Geneva, Lucerne and Lausanne.

Menus in many Ticino restau­rants are fixed and feature the freshest mixture available of hearty peasant cuisines.

Polenta, mentioned earlier, is a regional favorite. This traditional Italian corn-meal dish is served in endless ways: as a side dish like rice or potatoes, sliced cold and re-fried with an entree, or as a dessert swimming in syrups and sauces. Its distinct smoky fla­vor results from slow stirring as it simmers over an open fire.

Via Nassa is Lugano’s Fifth Ave­nue. As in Locarno, there are ex­cellent boutiques and inexpen­sive stalls sprinkled throughout the town offering local crafts and items toted over the border from Italy.

When we went shopping we looked for the Migros stores.

Three large Ms across the front of the building means a full-service and full-variety de­part­ment store; two Ms, a su­per­market, and one M, a conve­nience shop.

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September 12, 2021 at 8:00 pm

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Family Fun …

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… at Sunrise poolside Hawaiian hula night.

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September 11, 2021 at 2:27 pm

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Not to Make Light of a Serious Subject…

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… I’ve found an effective way to shrug off folks who just want to make conversation about 9/11, I suggest they call that number and see who answers

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September 11, 2021 at 11:52 am

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It Was Three Years Ago —

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— 7:14 a.m., Monday, Sept. 10, 2018 — that Bev died.

I was holding her hand and preparing to administer another eye-dropper dose of morphine on her tongue. You know when you’re feeding your spouse morphine that you’re killing her. Suddenly, her breathing became extraordinarily deep and slow … and then she left.

It ended some nine months of a losing battle against the debilitation of ALS and cancer in her spine. The final blow was the insertion of a catheter (because she no longer could get to the bathroom) that she swore she would never allow herself. She left quickly, quietly and on her own terms.

Among the memories of that excruciating period were some exceedingly warm and bright spots:

We talked about many things, including where and how we we were going to be buried. We agreed on a niche at Mission San Luis Rey in Oceanside, California, just up the road from San Diego, for our ashes.

We went on a final shopping run to Walmart in her pajamas to feed her shopping habit. I pushed her around the store in her walker with wheels and she picked out things she thought I would like because she no longer was able to swallow solid food. But we had fun.

We’d hold hands and watch ball games at night as she would nod off after the hospice worker arrived to watch over her so I could get some sleep.

Residents and staffers here at Sunrise of Gilbert would drop by to visit and brighten up her day as they talked about sports, shopping,, grandkids and everything else that overlooked the fact that she was dying.

A final memory-mark occurred after her ashes were parked in the mission niche when the Franciscan friar urged those assembled to pray for her soul.

And to pray to her. That’s something I do every day, several times a day. And you know what? It works.

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September 10, 2021 at 6:00 am

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Don’t let Growing Old …

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… get you down,

because it’s too damned difficult to get back up.

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September 8, 2021 at 3:43 pm

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We Live in a Sheltered Bubble

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We don’t have to battle the vagaries of life and living facing the rest of the universe. Mention rising taxes, inflationary grocery prices and burgeoning traffic and you get answers like “I don’t drive anymore” and “My daughter pays all the bills.” That’s life in a senior-living community, more affectionately known as “an old-farts’ facility.”

Jack Reber’s nightly 919 report that embraces San Diego Union, Tribune and Union-Tribune alumni as well as survivors of a few other Copley publications keeps me apprised of some former colleagues’ behaps and I get the Wall Street Journal to read the editorial page and letters to the editor. Most of my news coverage comes out of my computer and I aim the TV remote at CNN, Fox, MSNBC and — sometimes — a local TV news station to stay up to date.

The AZ Republic is a poor excuse for a daily newspaper. It claims 2020 weekday circulation of 116,.000 and 337,900 on Sundays. With a metro Phoenix population topping 4.9 million, that figures out to approximately one out of every 40 people read the daily and one out of 15 get the Sunday edition. The Sunday circulation figure is 40,000 fewer than 2018 and the daily total is 14,000 lower. I couldn’t find any figure for digital circulation.

Fortunately, the need for getting news is not top-priority here at Sunrise of Gilbert. The inmates are more focused on what nibbles we’re getting for happy hour. And why there’s a rwo-drink limit.

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September 8, 2021 at 10:36 am

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Catching Up is Hard to Do

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This will be an introduction to my world since we were blocked from this blog in the summer of 2018.

I’m ensconced in a roomy one bedroom apartment in Sunrise of Gilbert, an independent- and assisted-living complex about a mile and a quarter south of downtown Gilbert, one of the two dozen cities that comprise Maricopa County, Arizona, probably better known as metro Phoenix with more than 4.5 million people.

It came to light in a recent conversation that Phoenix is one of the few, if not the only, major U.S. cities that does not have a Little Italy.

The move to this 144-unit building that houses up to 172 people was made 4 1/2 years ago as part of the Californians’ exodus to Nevada, Utah, Texas, and Arizona, turning this long-time staunchly red state into a California-like blue one. Much has changed since the move so there’ll be more on that in the next few installments as I get back up to speed on blogging.

Life here is eventful because they’ve moved me into a volunteer spot as a community ambassador. There are three of us, one on each floor. Among other things, such as supporting staff at community-wide events and spreading the news of developments as they occur, we meet, greet and give an orientation session to newbies. And looking around the dining room now, there are more post-pandemic newbies than pre-pandemic residents here now. That gives you some idea of the turnover, from deaths and movements from this side of the building — independent-living — to the other side — assisted-living — where constant care is required and provided.

There are more than 300 Sunrise locations around the U.S. and Canada (they recently sold a few hundred properties in Britain) but only a handful offer both independent/assisted living services. The massive bulk are assisted-living only.

What stands out at Sunrise, according to the consensus, is the friendly neighborly feeling of each community. Our activities director Mary Weaver works her butt off coming up with events that divert and entertain — theater outings, drives to Jerome, regular shopping trips, jaunts to favorite restaurants, television and slide presentations, swimming-pool nights, BBQs, bingos, card-playing sessions, Western Days, andonandonandon…

I still get out for a bike ride every day, anywhere from three to 8 miles, depending on how I feel, the weather and time of day. Some days I skip it all together. Today, I stopped by the Post Office to mail a couple of packages, picked up a prescription at CVS and stopped at Albertson’s to pick up some chicken wings.

When I got home, computer guru Steve Gubka was waiting in the lounge with news: “I got into your blog,” he said.

We spent the next 90 minutes getting my blog open and me familiar with its new look and operation. And that’s how you got this.

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September 7, 2021 at 5:56 pm

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The Blogger’s Back…

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It’s been quite awhile since we last posted here. And a lot has happened since.

Don’t know wot happened way back then but we’ll get you caught up on happenings …

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September 7, 2021 at 1:17 pm

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